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生活中的5个球
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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& F% x5 I+ J5 O6 ~( u% d: C你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。$ |- o( T, u7 a" T, g1 n
' ]0 X; m& L7 J4 ^ X你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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怎样才能做好?: D0 W4 x; w1 H5 g! n6 ^
# i5 K9 ~% a$ f* y4 |7 n, i1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。% X3 o/ h2 T0 Z3 \
3 H* Y# h- A6 L1 s. l2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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) r4 }7 _, T6 f: a* k0 `6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。! z' Q6 u0 S1 ]: A7 o
* v8 e! R( r: n2 m7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。
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( L5 b+ E8 r; ?8 Y$ O, Y8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。( p8 Z: i- b# W2 x" y* [
; J. W5 J* S, k/ ~2 d9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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( I) c" G8 I2 e/ m12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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) q! J6 G. |1 }' q* R原文: N' |9 T5 i# ?1 l+ m9 o
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Five Balls Of Life
" L* ]; r) ? H6 }2 zThis was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.% i8 n8 S8 V) `! d4 m
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:6 p9 k: K5 @- E% E
- d, l' S" ^# }3 jImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.6 Y" n% ]5 f9 D' q
You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.) Q8 }! C' D" V
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
) B2 V s N* Z: N* o1 `2 f; J6 KThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.! _5 J; P9 V* Z; L7 P# h b* F' m3 f" ?
5 T5 h, s- P. q o1 v2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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0 H7 B" w8 T& Q6 z6 v7 \4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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# O# ]) x& Z8 V; p/ r. r, y. J3 R5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.8 Z; ^" Z4 d5 ~+ h- {2 t
& T$ Q, B( e- K$ [9 [7 _% {6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.) g, x( p; O3 C" C8 Z( Z
" \; u4 U9 Y: n5 L+ m, m7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.6 u% @3 E3 p2 d' P4 C
% w" ?( \2 G' B+ x7 n8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily. Z- H( v: Z5 w5 O
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.# L# T. n& B) w% W' \- h2 p
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