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生活中的5个球% I$ H- Y5 O) j6 H
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson' i4 l% A$ V/ f; t1 @
' Q* V! b& r" [) n9 F8 A设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。) Y1 {( B# s1 C4 {
3 J, L8 T; W7 j* v- w( {怎样才能做好?
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1 ]& g8 l7 o1 f( g- \* f, H% r& m1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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9 _" |+ R* Y0 J9 c3 F4 R. C9 f D2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。) t$ m0 C# z d1 Z! M8 l- O ?+ W) t& \
, h. V% t( e, d8 p3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。/ `& w( @9 W6 w" G! `! Q6 ]
0 n& R( l* D0 d/ F0 Q# E' t4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。3 H) u: h/ ^; m% a2 n- ?0 J6 c( J7 _
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。& E( p" D$ e$ [. k& H+ B, f+ ?
+ D0 e& U+ d( j6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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9 q+ |8 t" H! l0 a1 q7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。
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8 {$ n2 i! [/ C/ p1 L8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。. D2 `+ L' i2 O; a1 F: d
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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~2 A+ T. ~% g. J" f6 }: k10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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" K; o- ?+ U [: ^9 \1 X, f3 ?12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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原文:
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This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
; ?5 ]9 a% Z) VIt was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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' P7 H# Q% f" |: j6 H' e iImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.3 \* `4 T: f7 }+ S" i
You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
$ x# A0 x g( U4 @. L3 ]% @They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special." \( v C/ o' w
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.. a$ `9 S! y3 N2 {* f% B6 W' i
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4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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( O: K% U% E# s2 s+ y5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.* Y, ? m& O/ d
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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) L5 c5 I# [( i' h9 p7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. e6 M! C( Y T( Y6 W) u0 Y+ m
+ Y6 {) S/ U3 s6 U0 M0 f8 S8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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4 ]6 g( i1 y$ D- @; i$ d9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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4 D7 }8 a# \0 z3 e' ]4 ]; e/ ]10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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. n. I7 d) {: Y% w6 [' }1 B11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved./ ^' I6 i% _2 x* \ ]* q3 `9 D3 W
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