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生活中的5个球
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/ @+ f4 k7 E2 S t: S" P" b. i. F- B可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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' C2 S4 ]$ L0 M你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。( Y O# q+ v$ v ?" m( S& e
1 \- K0 ^* x, G# X你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。: m2 C, \: y) M% }) u! i/ g
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怎样才能做好?
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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8 O }4 x [! e% e O$ [0 }3 m3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。3 L ?+ \$ W0 |" A) R0 g# d
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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3 i: h! }2 Q: Y/ J& V ]$ X* v$ H; s7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 * q+ p6 n# a( q. S& m; R- \
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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( x% w& g4 ?/ r9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。$ ~0 B" R! Y* a5 Z* U; }; q
0 E4 _5 o3 s+ S- H& m10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。$ c4 G$ n. s* w( l6 x
0 O; C M: \1 J5 I1 p$ `6 ~; x& T11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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7 C( l ~; A) t% o0 `4 K" ~12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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* Y2 n) } P. K8 |* }5 l1 O$ n5 `0 C原文:
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Five Balls Of Life( }0 ?* m g% `& t9 C3 J
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.; O$ I9 U( a0 Y# b4 k, ?
You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
- A6 _' D0 O" {/ gThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.; @+ c! d0 A* A
2 ^( p. @, P2 Y: C; X2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you." @$ A( Q2 o* f) f- `* K3 y
4 c. V$ Z b' z3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.: T: P" J- @. B- b
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.$ ^$ F: S9 L2 l
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.3 \) R8 `3 ]& B% v1 h
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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* Q Z! H0 M* o* N- v$ g9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.# n0 p0 t* i* L' p
2 ^6 {, u1 a8 W10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated." P. `2 O+ M) I, o8 L
2 @; o7 E( l7 m5 u8 U% ]11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.# ^0 s' b& r: c2 `
% F$ t) B9 P: A/ ~12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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